tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post6281624757881838146..comments2024-02-27T02:28:51.897-05:00Comments on Poly & Poetry: Not questioning him anymore. Plus a little bit of Christian Grey.Kenziehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-38429009775806596832013-03-25T11:38:09.067-04:002013-03-25T11:38:09.067-04:00Real world certainly has a way of getting in the w...Real world certainly has a way of getting in the way, and it can be frustrating! But being able to communicate about it really does help. <br /><br />I wish Matt Bomer was officially Christian Grey, but they've yet to make any casting decisions .. that trailer was something a fan made I believe.<br /><br />And yea, if my grandma said that, I don't know what i'd do lol, but i'm glad you enjoyed it. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-73267523725910875052013-03-25T11:36:59.869-04:002013-03-25T11:36:59.869-04:00Thanks so much for the welcome! You're right ...Thanks so much for the welcome! You're right .. letting go of what we thik it will be, and giving in to how it WILL be, is important. I'm learning to trust him. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-91350962468246155912013-03-25T11:36:30.186-04:002013-03-25T11:36:30.186-04:00You're right Joey. There's a huge differe...You're right Joey. There's a huge difference with the way we see it going, and the way it goes. The trick is being able to adjust to the way it really is .. which is, like you said, a slow learning process.<br /><br />I'm glad you were able to build the confidence you needed! Thanks for the comment. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-7613566400100750582013-03-25T11:35:41.217-04:002013-03-25T11:35:41.217-04:00Thanks for the comment. I've learned that tes...Thanks for the comment. I've learned that testing him is not the way to go .. communication works LOTS better! And you're right, having fun with it is important too! :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-20896542768034598612013-03-25T11:35:10.346-04:002013-03-25T11:35:10.346-04:00Waiting for it at times can certainly be part of t...Waiting for it at times can certainly be part of the punishment.. hope yours went ok as well!Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-47558983040252573432013-03-25T11:34:54.088-04:002013-03-25T11:34:54.088-04:00Matt Bomer is just .. words can't even explain...Matt Bomer is just .. words can't even explain, lol. I like Ian, but almost feel like he looks to boyish for Christian. It's funny because i've heard people say that about Bomer as well though.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-16096077157594573342013-03-25T11:33:35.833-04:002013-03-25T11:33:35.833-04:00haha, I feel the same way. He is just gorgeous .....haha, I feel the same way. He is just gorgeous .. seriously, gorgeous!Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-48984352237027388802013-03-25T11:33:16.518-04:002013-03-25T11:33:16.518-04:00Thanks so much! It seems communication really is ...Thanks so much! It seems communication really is key.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-37740667350850871492013-03-25T11:33:01.849-04:002013-03-25T11:33:01.849-04:00Thanks so much Julia! It's nice knowing other...Thanks so much Julia! It's nice knowing others have been through it as well.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-65509786710362905282013-03-24T03:51:30.253-04:002013-03-24T03:51:30.253-04:00Not getting a spanking when you are expecting one ...Not getting a spanking when you are expecting one is SO frustrating. I can totally understand that. But as you wrote, the real world gets in the way a lot. Good for you both for talking it out and working on a later time to take care of things. Hearing "we'll discuss this later" and knowing it'll happen can do as much for my head as actually getting the spanking.<br /><br />Is Matt Bomer officially Christian Grey then? I didn't know someone had been chosen. He is very attractive. That other video cracked me up. If I ever hear "what is a butt plug?" from my grandma, I may die laughing.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-3768137902509519352013-03-23T11:42:47.197-04:002013-03-23T11:42:47.197-04:00Kenzie,
Welcome to Blogland!
I think, especial...Kenzie, <br /><br />Welcome to Blogland! <br /> I think, especially when we are starting ttwd/D/s if we can let go of how we want or think it will be and give into the ebb and flow, things can go a lot smoother. Trust your Colin! :o)Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-19374372447103727082013-03-23T07:54:31.605-04:002013-03-23T07:54:31.605-04:00Dear Kenzie,
When we read blogs about D/s, we thi...Dear Kenzie,<br /><br />When we read blogs about D/s, we think that wow, I want that. I really admire that couple and what they have. And, I really would love to be spanked often and hard. And, I find someone dominating me to be so hot just like them.<br /><br />I think that in reality what you have with Colin is the real world of D/s, a slow learning process. <br /><br />When I first started topping, I lacked confidence. My friends helped me by being supportive. Now, I am very confident and it shows. I hate to give advice, but I will. Believe in Colin, compliment his efforts, be understanding when he is tired, show your love for him taking on this very difficult task. Build his confidence and establish trust.<br /><br />My best to both of you as you progress on your journey.<br /><br />Hug,<br /><br />joey<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-3961175043155953342013-03-23T03:58:01.220-04:002013-03-23T03:58:01.220-04:00You are taking the right steps in trusting him. if...You are taking the right steps in trusting him. if you are unhappy with his inconsistency don't test him go and talk to him.<br />hang in there it is going to take time to get in the grove in TTWD<br />Remember to have fun it doesn't have to be so serious all the time.<br /><br />Bob bob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-43588299950758334012013-03-23T03:42:05.269-04:002013-03-23T03:42:05.269-04:00Yesterday my punishment also had some delays, but ...Yesterday my punishment also had some delays, but when I already got know that even delays won't take it away from me, it's become a part of my punishment - WAITING FOr IT. So... Good luck with that ;) shilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13484505877145964706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-21676287382303110822013-03-23T03:38:05.535-04:002013-03-23T03:38:05.535-04:00SO i haven't read your post. But I have to say...SO i haven't read your post. But I have to say I've a HUGE crush on Matt Bomer too. And YES HE IS SO CHRISTIAN GREY. BUT I'm also a big fan of <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EDnVjVMN7S0/UQtLmnFqzfI/AAAAAAAAFT4/ERV1kx4dTEQ/s1600/936full-ian-somerhalder.jpg" rel="nofollow">Ian Somerhalder</a>.<br /><br />Doesn't he look like a strong contender for the part too?Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-24180016749414391202013-03-23T01:35:18.422-04:002013-03-23T01:35:18.422-04:00Unknown Matt bomer is gonna leave his partner and ...Unknown Matt bomer is gonna leave his partner and become straight for me :)A confused subs feelingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00773666253380166037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-74760608791017174592013-03-22T22:35:46.352-04:002013-03-22T22:35:46.352-04:00Yep, communication goes a long way! Hang in there,...Yep, communication goes a long way! Hang in there,<br /><br />Sarafindingsarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07352980311488921341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-1450208795227924342013-03-22T21:34:45.985-04:002013-03-22T21:34:45.985-04:00Very nice eye candy!
And I could follow every word...Very nice eye candy!<br />And I could follow every word you wrote. So been there, and have done that. I hope you guys get to move past that point quickly!Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.com