tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post7430060137469070179..comments2024-02-27T02:28:51.897-05:00Comments on Poly & Poetry: Who 'looks like' the dominant one?Kenziehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-59655464346070337622013-05-15T23:51:55.326-04:002013-05-15T23:51:55.326-04:00That's funny! I don't think I would ever b...That's funny! I don't think I would ever be mistaken as the dominant one based on personality. I'm too quiet and indecisive, nothing would ever get done! I have been asked at parties before if I was a top and it's almost always been them judging me by my height. Not all tall people want to be tops! I think it's more them hoping I would be than me acting like I was.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-19267689385019867362013-05-09T11:35:55.566-04:002013-05-09T11:35:55.566-04:00Kenzie-
Don't be so fearful of running into pe...Kenzie-<br />Don't be so fearful of running into people you know in those stores. After all, they are in the store for a reason too. Maybe it will lead to a better friendship??Russhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13880103469826508662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-11823566167909971662013-05-09T10:23:12.364-04:002013-05-09T10:23:12.364-04:00Good point about it depending on the store .. next...Good point about it depending on the store .. next time maybe i'll just step back and let him take the lead. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-71663247286875049622013-05-09T10:22:49.911-04:002013-05-09T10:22:49.911-04:00lol it is a very scary thing to go into the store ...lol it is a very scary thing to go into the store .. especially when it's close to home! People would walk in and i'd just pray that it was someone we didn't know .. I don't know what i'd do if that were the case!<br /><br />Thanks for the comment. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-9106340836025413732013-05-09T10:22:07.328-04:002013-05-09T10:22:07.328-04:00I can be bossy with him too .. something i'm t...I can be bossy with him too .. something i'm trying to change! :)<br /><br />Thanks for the comment.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-36573481501972309832013-05-09T10:21:47.204-04:002013-05-09T10:21:47.204-04:00We get most from the internet .. but this once we ...We get most from the internet .. but this once we didn't have time to wait for it to get shipped to us .. but then of course we ended up forgetting it at home and didn't even bring it on vacation, lol.<br /><br />Thanks Belle. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-87441219333504407052013-05-09T10:21:10.379-04:002013-05-09T10:21:10.379-04:00Lol, if they only knew is sooo true. :)Lol, if they only knew is sooo true. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-30439150324312206072013-05-09T10:20:57.618-04:002013-05-09T10:20:57.618-04:00She was just kind of quiet, lol .. quiet but also ...She was just kind of quiet, lol .. quiet but also giggly. It was a weird experience! :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-59736647802844580202013-05-09T10:20:34.088-04:002013-05-09T10:20:34.088-04:00I'm the same way .. I wasn't too happy whe...I'm the same way .. I wasn't too happy when the lady assumed I was the one in charge. It made me realize that it probably comes off like that more than I think .. which is weird considering the dynamic we have.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-12578348196082595972013-05-09T10:20:00.027-04:002013-05-09T10:20:00.027-04:00That's cute that DD has changed it a bit, and ...That's cute that DD has changed it a bit, and gotten you to be more submissive. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-27983097601690465392013-05-09T10:17:30.749-04:002013-05-09T10:17:30.749-04:00haha, not THAT kind of cell. :)
I agree with you ...haha, not THAT kind of cell. :)<br /><br />I agree with you and Rosie on wanting to hand everything over and not be in charge .. it's a nice feeling. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-799709168235734432013-05-09T10:16:53.249-04:002013-05-09T10:16:53.249-04:00Lol.. yup, it's more of a "Sex toy store&...Lol.. yup, it's more of a "Sex toy store" kind of place, but they actually happen to have a few implements that aren't the usual heart shaped paddles that most of those stores sell. They're more like real punishment spanking implements - it's surprising to find that!<br /><br />Good point on wanting a safe place to be the submissive one, I like that. :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-45819408890311513012013-05-09T10:15:58.971-04:002013-05-09T10:15:58.971-04:00Ohhh boy, lol.. I would have ran for the hills!Ohhh boy, lol.. I would have ran for the hills!Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-17709590859404929612013-05-09T10:15:44.661-04:002013-05-09T10:15:44.661-04:00Lol, just so happens none of those items were used...Lol, just so happens none of those items were used. But i'm sure if we had the privacy, they would have been.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-73473977994200016702013-04-29T19:38:21.422-04:002013-04-29T19:38:21.422-04:00Good question. I think it depends on the store, bu...Good question. I think it depends on the store, but I usually step back and let LD talk to the sales person.<br /><br />Hug,<br />joeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-55331515296396657622013-04-29T11:56:25.241-04:002013-04-29T11:56:25.241-04:00Interesting question...my H is quietly in control ...Interesting question...my H is quietly in control and I am loudly...not! lol so I can see that being confusing to some. People in the past have definitely thought I was the dominant one in the relationship. They OBVIOUSLY don't know us! Lol and my HoH has gone into a store. I would NEVER go with him though! I would die! hahaha And my H goes to a store over an hour away just to be sure he is not seen. :) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-83749742030332769852013-04-29T06:11:18.828-04:002013-04-29T06:11:18.828-04:00I'm working on my attitude to let other people...I'm working on my attitude to let other people know who is the dominant one in our relationship. Cause I'm also kind of bossy and I don't to be :) <br /><br />But when we are in this kind of shops, I suppose that people know who is who. I hope so, at least... shilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13484505877145964706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-33268859587604790482013-04-29T00:10:47.493-04:002013-04-29T00:10:47.493-04:00We got our spanking implements from the internet. ...We got our spanking implements from the internet. I can't imagine my husband or myself being able to ask questions in public regarding DD, sooo I could understand the woman guessing whoever was forced to ask the questions must have been the submissive. (Because someone would have to force me to do it). I have asked some very personal questions as an RN, and I'm sure my husband had as a police officer. The questions however were about somebody else's activities, not our own. LOL. Have a wonderful vacation. God bless you and all you love, Belle L. Belle Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222752720181960143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-25429673901038359862013-04-28T23:11:28.734-04:002013-04-28T23:11:28.734-04:00My Daddy all the way. Even had a girlfriend mentio...My Daddy all the way. Even had a girlfriend mention how controlling he was once....had to stifle a laugh there, if they only knew.dancingbarezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05159330409168648147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-79841099384361404242013-04-28T21:45:34.386-04:002013-04-28T21:45:34.386-04:00You tell her Colin!You tell her Colin!Russhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13880103469826508662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-29612828811712932792013-04-28T19:34:37.637-04:002013-04-28T19:34:37.637-04:00What did she say when he spoke up? LOL
BobWhat did she say when he spoke up? LOL<br /><br />Bobbob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-48034059156468878162013-04-28T19:22:53.979-04:002013-04-28T19:22:53.979-04:00I used to be perceived as the person in charge, an...I used to be perceived as the person in charge, and I never liked it. Some days now that doesn't happen anymore, other days, I wonder...Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-50649723227925180002013-04-28T17:49:18.083-04:002013-04-28T17:49:18.083-04:00People would think I'm the dominant one but od...People would think I'm the dominant one but oddly enough I find that changing as we get farther into DD. my softer speech has already raised a few curious looks from my children.<br />BeaBeahttp://en.gravatar.com/mybeahindnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-54273598621336322502013-04-28T16:55:16.644-04:002013-04-28T16:55:16.644-04:00You worried me at first when you said you were wri...You worried me at first when you said you were writing from your cell!!!<br />I know people think I am the one in charge. I have spoken strong feminist views and refused to be known as Mrs. But like Rosie, that's why this is important to me because I don't want to be in charge, I want to hand everything over.<br />Have a great trip<br />JAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3753749621089570634.post-48402751094057935632013-04-28T14:24:35.794-04:002013-04-28T14:24:35.794-04:00You guys went into a store? Brave lady! Bossman ...You guys went into a store? Brave lady! Bossman wants too, but I'm a huuuge chicken. I know exactly who looks like the dominant one: me. I'm organized, matter-of-fact, in charge, and bossy. My friends refer to me as an alpha female. I am. Which is why I want this lifestyle, because I want a safe place that I can be the submissive one.<br /><br />Have fun on your trip! And be careful, don't underestimate the ouch factor of everyday items!Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08332110019063664332noreply@blogger.com