Tuesday, July 23, 2013

In a.. lull. & A meme!

I feel like I haven't made a post in forever! We missed submissive Saturday this week. :( Both the post, and the actual day! Things have been SO crazy busy around here lately, we just haven't had the opportunity. 

We'll be out of town yet again this weekend, and the weekend after that my best friend, who lives out of state, is coming to stay with us for a week, so there goes another submissive Saturday. Ah well, life happens. I'm sure we'll pick up where we left out when everything dies down, and even though we've been busy, I can't say I haven't been having tons of fun lately with friends and family, so that's a big plus!

When it comes to DD, I feel like we're in a serious .. lull right now. Part of me feels like I needed that, and still kind of do need it, and the other part of me really really misses it. With all the craziness, when we finally get some time alone, I just want to relax. The last thing I want to deal with is possibly being punished, or having to follow direction. Or so I think.

I think it's the last thing I want, but in reality, I need it more than ever in those times. I might push back a lot harder than usual, but I really just need him to keep at me until I get back into that submissive frame of mind. Poor guy, he sure has his work cut out for him. 

Anyway, i've missed blogging, and i've really missed reading everyones, so i'm sorry I haven't commented in a while, but after I finish this up, i'm going to go try and catch up!

Ok well, I could go on and on about how I want/need to feel submissive lately, but at the same time, i'm almost too tired for it, etc etc, but no more of that. Let's move on to a fun little meme that's been going around.

1. What do you wear to bed?  Usually pajama pants and a shirt, although Colin wishes it was less. :p 

2. What's your favourite pet name for your SO?  I actually love calling him Sir, but more often I use sweetie or something like that.

3. What's your favourite thing to do on a rainy day? Go to the movies, or cuddle up in bed and watch a movie together. Maybe a scary one? Even though I always regret it after.

4. Your favourite snack food? Hm, it depends. I'm weird with snack food, i'd rather have a cup of chicken broth than candy or chips.

5. Do you cry at sad movies? Oh god yes, all the time.

6. What's your favourite implement to be spanked with? Hm, his hand

7. Is your hair long or short?  I'd go with medium.

8. What size is your bed?  Queen, we need a king though because I sleep all sorts of crazy.

9. Do you have sex with the lights on or off?  Depends. If they're off, they'll stay off, if they're on they'll usually stay on. I like the mood better when they're off though.

10. What's your favourite 'around the house' outfit?  Hmm, when I don't plan on leaving the house? A comfy tee and some juicy pants!

11. How do you drink your coffee or tea?  Coffee I drink with cream and sugar, tea it all depends, usually with a hint of agave. 

12. Are you a bargain hunter?  Not really, although I should be.

13. Do you think bald men are sexy?  It all depends on the guy and whether or not he can pull it off.

14. Are you a good driver?  I think so, but Colin would disagree most of the time.

15. In a 24 hour period, how many hours do you spend watching TV? It all depends on the night and if our shows are on or not. For example, pretty little liars is on tonight, so of course i'll be watching. :)

16. Name the last book you read? It's been way too long, i'm not even sure what the last one was. I need some new good books.

17. Would you rather be hot or cold? I don't like being too hot, or too cold, but if I had to pick .. cold. Lots of blankets and cuddling. :)

18. How many hours a day do you spend on the Internet? Too many! Especially on the days I don't work!

19. Do you like facial hair on a man?  A little bit of it, but not a lot. I like the scruffy look.

20. Are you a smoker? Nope, never have been either. I smoked a bit in high school, but it never stuck, thankfully.


  1. Hi Kenzie,
    It sounds like you've been busy and having fun! Same here, our weekends seem to be busy through the rest if summer. It makes it hard keeping up with blogland.

    Love the meme.

    1. It does make it hard, so thanks for finding the time to read and comment! :)

      Hope you enjoy summer!

  2. You have a busy schedule. Summer is for fun and it sounds like you are having lots of it.

    1. So true, summer is for fun! :)

      Thanks sg!

  3. Summer is a busy time, to everything there is a season, I guess. So the season for Submissive Saturday will come along again.
    Enjoy the good summer times - we'll be here when you get back :)

    1. Very true, the season for it will be here again eventually. :)

      Thank you, I hope youre enjoying summer as well.

  4. Hi Kenzie,

    Glad to hear you have been having lots of fun with friends and family. Enjoy the summer, Submissive Saturday will return when life settles down a bit I'm sure. We will be here whenever you are able to blog :)

    Love this meme and your answers.


    1. Thanks Roz! Friends and family time has been great. You're right, Submissive Saturday will return when life settles down! :)

  5. Happy to hear you have been having fun with family and friends.

    Love your answers. What's agave? Have to look it up.


    1. Thanks Ronnie! Glad you liked it. :)

      Agave is a sweetener. It's sort of like honey, but not nearly as thick - and you can also get it in different flavors!

  6. Thank you for sharing. It is a quiet summer.


  7. Fun meme :) going to borrow it! :)