Who 'looks like' the dominant one?

Writing this from my cell so not sure how itll turn out, but lets give it a go.

Were currently in the car on our way to vacation, and im bored out of my mind so figured id write a quick post.

First thing to mention, Colin left the new cane and the capcaisin cream at home..yayy!  The plus side of being in a rush. :)

Speaking of the cane, we went to a local shop that sells a few spanking implements and found a bamboo cane.  Thankfully it will be hanging out in the clpset, all by itself, for about a week!  Buying it at the place was an interesting experience.  Colin asked to see a few things and as the lady was explaining how they work, I was bright red.. but then something pretty funny happened.

She starts asking how hard we plan to use the implement.  What made this interesting was that she referred the question towards me, basically asking how hard I plan to use it on him.  I just kind of laughed and Colin spoke up and said something along the lines of how he plans on using it.  Then he continues to ask questions and asks to see some nipple clamps.  Cue me turning bright red all over again.

Anyway, I found it funny that it seemed like the sales woman thought I was the dominant one.  Especially since I was bright red and shy and Colin was pretty outspoken.

If you took a step back and looked at your relationship as a couple, to the outside world, and a stranger had to guess who was dominant and who was submissive, do you think theyd guess the right way?

Well im being asked by our..non kinky friends why im typing away the way I am, so thats my cue to get off of here.  Ill try to read blogs and catch up when I have some free time.

I also wrote a fun entry before we left that ill post sometime this week.  Hope eveeyone is having a good weekend! :)