Saturday, June 8, 2013

Submissive Saturdays

I thought it would be a cute idea to do some kind of post, where once a week, on a certain day, I can write about something, or post some pictures - just something related to TTWD/DD. I was asking Colin for advice, and I told him I liked the blog title "Submissive Saturdays," but wasn't really sure what to write about.

We did some brainstorming and came up with a few ideas. First thing is, for the Submissive Saturday blog posts, we're going to both find some pictures that have to do with Submission, Dominance, DD, spanking, discipline, etc - and we'll post them. I really like the idea, because not only do I think it's a fun type of post, but it's also so interesting to see which pictures each other chooses. It's almost like one more way to find out what calls out to each of us, on a DD/TTWD level.

Another thing we came up with, and I have to give most of the credit here to Colin, (which by the way, made me super happy that he came up with this,) is for US to do a Submissive Saturday. Basically, for the next couple of months or so, we're going to try and set a topic for that Saturday, and work on it.

He said one Saturday, it could be about me being submissive in the bedroom, another Saturday could be about me being submissive with punishments, and another Saturday it could be about me being submissive with everyday things; caling him Sir, cleaning up, chores, cooking for him, doing things for him more than usual, etc. That way, it's making me focus on my submission, and at the same time, making him focus on his Dominance. He said it could involve spankings, kneeling, using the collar, corner time, essays, etc. Then, on Sundays, we're going to put away some time to talk, and just go over the previous week.

We had been doing maintenance every Sunday, but he decided that from now on, maintenance will be on an as needed basis, and Sundays can now be our time to talk about things, and what each other needs to work on, but also what we think each other did well, and things like that. He even came up with a name for it, "Reflection Sundays."

I can't even begin to explain how happy I was for him to come up with all of this stuff. I had a huuuuuge smile on my face, and honestly - I feel even more submissive already! The whole "inner goddess" mumbo jumbo annoyed the hell out of me in Fifty Shades, but I do feel like my "Inner submissive" is pretty damn happy right about now. Happy, content, anxious, excited. I love it. :)

So anyway, here's the first "Submissive Saturdays" blog post. The pictures I picked out will be first, and Colin's will be second.

Kenzie's Submissive Saturday Pictures:








Colin's Submissive Saturday Pictures:








31 comments:

  1. Can't wait for our submissive Saturday's babe. You better be a good girl this week and do as you're told ;).

    -Colin

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    1. I'm so excited for them. :) Although kind of nervous too, but we'll have fun. ;)

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  2. Oh la la! Love the pics :) Thanks Kenzie and Colin. Enjoy your Saturday!!!

    -Marie

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    1. Happy you liked the pics. :) Thanks Marie!

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  3. Love the pictures from both of you. What a great idea

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    1. Thanks Blondie. I'm excited about it. :)

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  4. We do something like this too, and it definitely is a fun exercise. Good luck to you two! Try to relax and enjoy it for what it is without putting too much pressure on what it SHOULD be. Hope it goes well! :)

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    1. Great advice Rosie, and I want to do just that! Even though I want it to be serious when it comes to the submission and Dominance, I also want it to be fun, and just let it happen without worrying about how it SHOULD happen. :)

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  5. What a great idea! I love it that this is something that y'all will do together. Enjoyed the pics from both of you.

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    1. Thanks Bonnie! I love how we can do it together, it makes it so much more exciting. :)

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  6. I love the new look Kenzie!
    And the pics, I especially am starting to appreciate gifs for spanking related things..:)

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    1. Thanks Julia! Aren't gifs the greatest? I love them! Esp when they're spanking related. :)

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    1. Yes, just like Boss Day. :) Thanks Bea!

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  8. Oh I love that idea! And nice pictures, both of you :)

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    1. Thanks Brenna! I'm so excited for it. :)

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  9. Kenzie and Colin,

    I love this post on so many levels. Well done!!

    The pictures are perfect. I like every one of them.

    I am looking forward to your Submissive Saturday posts.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Aw thanks Joey! :) I'm so glad you liked it. :) I'll be writing more about it, as it happens.

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  10. This is going to be interesting to see the many way you are going to express your submission Colin might want to input on what it means to him to every one in awhile.

    Bob

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    1. Thanks Bob. :) We're both excited to see where it takes us. Good idea, i'd love for Colin to give his input as well.

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  11. Hi Kenzie,
    Great pictures, I love how your doing this together. I can't wait to hear about your Saturdays.
    Kim

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    1. Thanks Kim! I can't wait to have our first one, and then write all about it. :)

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  12. Hi Kenzie and Colin :)

    I just stumbled over here and I'm so glad. I loved this post. Such a great idea, we have feedback Fridays, which we have had since we started, and it's really good. The point is to be completely honest and open with each other about our thoughts and emotions and how we think the week was.

    Love the pics too x

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    1. Feedback Fridays! Cute! You're right, it's so important to be 100 percent honest and open during those times, otherwise why bother? I'm glad you stumbled over here. :)

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  13. I, like the others, think this is a very good idea. Assigning one day a week to heighten the focus on being submissive (and dominant) would be a great way to keep the dynamic strong and the roles of each partner in the forefront of their minds at all times. It truly is a brilliant idea. Perhaps it's something for us to consider doing as well. Keep us posted on how well (or not well) it goes! I'd be very interested in reading about it.

    Great post, and again, great idea! I hope you two are doing well.

    All the best.

    -- Clint

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    1. Thanks Clint! I'm so happy we decided to do this, and i'm excited for tomorrow, because it's Saturday and i'm anxious to see how it goes. Don't worry, i'll be writing all about it. :)

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  14. Love this Kenzie & Colin. Wonderful idea, I look forward to seeing more.
    Honey

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    1. Thanks Honey! I'm such a dork, but i'm excited that tomorrow is Saturday because i'm anxious to see how it goes. :)

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  15. Love that you're doing this together. Great ideas, both of you!!!
    :)

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    1. Thanks Sarah! It's so much fun. :)

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  16. It sounds like a really nice idea. I liked both of your chosen pics/sayings.

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