Sometimes I wonder how in the world I used to think he'd never be able to step up into that HoH role. He's been more HoHy than ever lately, and I have to say, I kinda love it.
Well, I love it, except when it has to do with a punishment.
He considered the checking messages while driving thing, just as bad as texting and driving, so it was a pretty serious spanking. He used the new paddle, a bathbrush, and the strap. OUCH! He was also doing lots of lecturing during the spanking, which made it very effective!
He totally made up for it after it was over though, because he went out and got me ice cream. Yup, he's the best.
I also had to write an essay on why texting and driving is so dangerous. He made sure to remind me that it had to include actual facts, so I had to do research as well.
I finally got the essay done last night, (it was late so he gave me a quick spanking last night because of that,) but at least I finally got it done! I was so thankful to get it over and done with, so I yelled to him in the other room that it was done. I expected to hear, "Good girl." Ohhh was I wrong.
What I really heard was, "Okay, come in here and read it to me now."
WHAT?! Did he really just say that? Did I hear him correctly?! My expression went from relieved it was over, to SHOCKED in about .2 seconds.
Thankfully he's a sweetheart and came into the bedroom so I could read it there, rather than standing in front of him in the living room reading it. I'm such a baby, I even had to cover my face with a pillow while reading it out loud. He told me next time it happens, i'll be reading it to him while kneeling.
Note to self: Do NOT let it happen again!
So finally, it's all done and over with. I think my favorite thing ever, is this new thing he does when a punishment is over.
He tells me to come over to him, and he gives me a big hug. I LOVE that, it seriously makes me the happiest person in the world. Even if my butt might be sore beyond belief at the moment. :)
Kenzie,
ReplyDeleteHe really has stepped up as an HOH. Good for the both of you.
Hug,
joey
You're right Joey, he sure has! :) Thank you!
DeleteGood for both of you on living your chosen lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteThanks sunnygirl. :) It feels great!
DeleteHe sure does think of everything, making you read it aloud! I'm happy for you, it feels so good when things do fall into place and life is so good!
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Kim
Lol I couldn't believe he actually had that idea! I was shocked!
DeleteThanks Kim :)
Sounds like things are going well in your parts of the world! And I agree, anything cell phone related should wait until you are standing again.
ReplyDeleteThanks Julia, you're so right! It's not worth it at all! :)
DeleteHe is most definitely stepping up! I would hate to have to do everything you just described here...I guess that's what makes it effective though, right? lol I am very happy for both of you :)
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Marie
He sure is stepping up! I hated it, but you're right, it's totally what makes it effective, lol. Thanks Marie :)
DeleteAnd a big hug at the end. I love it!!!!
ReplyDeleteGlad things are going so well for you! :)
Thanks Sarah! The hug completes it. :)
DeleteOh how Alec loves essays and how I hate them. Reading it aloud I'm sure made it even more effective. Love happy endings especially when they include a hug!
ReplyDeleteGlad you and Colin are doing so well!
((Hugs)) Cat
Lol, Colin got the idea from you and Alec! Darn essays and HOHS sharing ideas!
DeleteA happy ending with a hug is the best. :)
So happy for you Kenzie! Loved this!
ReplyDeleteM.
Aw thanks! You're so sweet. :)
DeleteI'm so happy for you that he has stepped up and that you've found a new aftercare ritual :)
ReplyDeleteCallie
Thanks Callie! It's amazing. :)
DeleteWow Kenzie he really has found his HOH hat :)
ReplyDeleteI've never had to do an essay, I think he knows I like writing, but what I hate is lines, so mundane and boring and then he sits there and counts every line :(
I'm happy for you guys, even with a sore bum, you guys seem to be well on your way :)
Hugs x
He sure has found his HOH hat! I don't know where it was hiding all this time.
DeleteYea, lines suck don't they!? Blegh! Thanks Missy! :)
Hi Kenzie,
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad this is now behind you (pun intended :) and that you are in a good place. The after care is the best isn't it?
Great to hear he is stepping up. Happy for you!
Hugs,
Roz
Lol love the pun Roz!
DeleteThe after care is awesome. :) Thanks!
I'm so glad he's taking such good care of you!!
ReplyDeleteAw, thanks Tara :)
DeleteIt is really nice to just get it over with sometimes. And ending with a hug is always great!
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