Some (hopefully) new spanking questions!

I love all the spanking surveys that there are out there, especially when I want to write in the blog, but I don't have all that much to write about in the moment.

That being said, i've done a few of the surveys i've found floating around in blog land, and when I just did a search to see if there were any fun ones I hadn't done, I couldn't really find any. So, that brings me to this post. I'm going to try and create my own survey. I'm sure some of the questions will be similar to questions you've seen on other surveys, but i'm going to try my best to come up with some different/new ones. *Also, thanks to Riley for a couple of the question ideas!*

Hopefully some people will like what they see and repost this survey on their blogs, with their answers!

*Underneath my answers, i'll put the questions with no answers, so it's easier to copy and paste.*


1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share: 

I can't pinpoint my interest in spanking to any specific incident, but I know it started at a pretty early age!

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)

Most of the time, I use Sir.

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)

Oh he has a few "terms of endearment." Young lady, my pet, and brat are the three most common I think.

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?

I have to give a little thought to this one to make sure I pick the right implement! Hmm, I think i'd go with our wooden paddle!

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

He's used a get out of spanking card before as a reward, but I think my favorite reward is a massage.

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

"That's it!" Accompanied by the look, and him going to get an implement. There's no turning back at that point. Short, sweet, and to the point.

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

I'll go with, getting spanked in front of someone else.

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

Be PATIENT! Things aren't going to go as you envision them overnight. Actually, they probably will never be 100 percent like you envision it. Go with the flow, make DD about what fits you best as a couple - and have fun with it!

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

I don't have a great answer for this one .. hmm, probably pulled over at a park and ride?

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

Okay, i'll get a little personal here - maybe some sort of orgasm denial type stuff? Sorry if that's TMI, readers. ;)

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

We always thought being sent to the bedroom by myself, would be pointless. We've tried it a few times lately, and it's actually very effective.

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

I'd probably say that it was going to be tough. Extremely tough at times. It's totally worth it so far though. 

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

Him being on my butt about cursing!

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

Honestly, i'd rather discipline spankings if I had to pick just one. I'd miss the fun, playful ones, so that's not an easy answer, but i'll stick with my gut and say i'd rather stick with discipline.

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

As much as I love the idea of that, I don't think I could. I'm not "toppy," at all, and i'd honestly laugh the whole entire time.

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

Him playing with my hair. Me looking up at him, while he plays with my hair and cuddles with me. Best feeling in the world.

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

I brought it up to him, very slowly. I started off dropping hints about fun, sexual type spankings, and then one day, years into our relationship, finally got the courage to tell him more about DD/Ds type stuff.

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

I don't know if i'm right or not on this one, but I think he'd pick the strap. Or maybe the wooden paddle?

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

I can be a bit... feisty, so if i'm in a particular cheeky kinda mood, and I know i'm going to be getting a spanking, i'd probably put on my panties that say, "Naughty Girl." Always fun to get a little laugh out of him. :)

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!

You don't always have to worry about me when it comes to spanking/punishment. I can take it. In fact, I need to be pushed a bit for it to really be effective. Don't be afraid to mean business. ;)

*Bonus Question (just because it's fun)- Is there a picture (spanking, dd, Ds, etc related) that you just really love? If so, let's see it!*

I've posted this one before, but I just love it, so here it is again. :)

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*Here's the blank version! Like I said, please feel free to copy and paste this onto your blog! I'd love to see everyones answers. :)*

1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share:

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!

*Bonus Question (just because it's fun)- Is there a picture (spanking, dd, Ds, etc related) that you just really love? If so, let's see it!*