Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Some (hopefully) new spanking questions!

I love all the spanking surveys that there are out there, especially when I want to write in the blog, but I don't have all that much to write about in the moment.

That being said, i've done a few of the surveys i've found floating around in blog land, and when I just did a search to see if there were any fun ones I hadn't done, I couldn't really find any. So, that brings me to this post. I'm going to try and create my own survey. I'm sure some of the questions will be similar to questions you've seen on other surveys, but i'm going to try my best to come up with some different/new ones. *Also, thanks to Riley for a couple of the question ideas!*

Hopefully some people will like what they see and repost this survey on their blogs, with their answers!

*Underneath my answers, i'll put the questions with no answers, so it's easier to copy and paste.*


1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share: 

I can't pinpoint my interest in spanking to any specific incident, but I know it started at a pretty early age!

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)

Most of the time, I use Sir.

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)

Oh he has a few "terms of endearment." Young lady, my pet, and brat are the three most common I think.

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?

I have to give a little thought to this one to make sure I pick the right implement! Hmm, I think i'd go with our wooden paddle!

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

He's used a get out of spanking card before as a reward, but I think my favorite reward is a massage.

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

"That's it!" Accompanied by the look, and him going to get an implement. There's no turning back at that point. Short, sweet, and to the point.

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

I'll go with, getting spanked in front of someone else.

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

Be PATIENT! Things aren't going to go as you envision them overnight. Actually, they probably will never be 100 percent like you envision it. Go with the flow, make DD about what fits you best as a couple - and have fun with it!

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

I don't have a great answer for this one .. hmm, probably pulled over at a park and ride?

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

Okay, i'll get a little personal here - maybe some sort of orgasm denial type stuff? Sorry if that's TMI, readers. ;)

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

We always thought being sent to the bedroom by myself, would be pointless. We've tried it a few times lately, and it's actually very effective.

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

I'd probably say that it was going to be tough. Extremely tough at times. It's totally worth it so far though. 

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

Him being on my butt about cursing!

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

Honestly, i'd rather discipline spankings if I had to pick just one. I'd miss the fun, playful ones, so that's not an easy answer, but i'll stick with my gut and say i'd rather stick with discipline.

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

As much as I love the idea of that, I don't think I could. I'm not "toppy," at all, and i'd honestly laugh the whole entire time.

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

Him playing with my hair. Me looking up at him, while he plays with my hair and cuddles with me. Best feeling in the world.

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

I brought it up to him, very slowly. I started off dropping hints about fun, sexual type spankings, and then one day, years into our relationship, finally got the courage to tell him more about DD/Ds type stuff.

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

I don't know if i'm right or not on this one, but I think he'd pick the strap. Or maybe the wooden paddle?

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

I can be a bit... feisty, so if i'm in a particular cheeky kinda mood, and I know i'm going to be getting a spanking, i'd probably put on my panties that say, "Naughty Girl." Always fun to get a little laugh out of him. :)

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!

You don't always have to worry about me when it comes to spanking/punishment. I can take it. In fact, I need to be pushed a bit for it to really be effective. Don't be afraid to mean business. ;)

*Bonus Question (just because it's fun)- Is there a picture (spanking, dd, Ds, etc related) that you just really love? If so, let's see it!*

I've posted this one before, but I just love it, so here it is again. :)
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*Here's the blank version! Like I said, please feel free to copy and paste this onto your blog! I'd love to see everyones answers. :)*


1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share:

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!

*Bonus Question (just because it's fun)- Is there a picture (spanking, dd, Ds, etc related) that you just really love? If so, let's see it!*

29 comments:

  1. Fun!
    Good questions.. And I liked your answers :)
    I'll c&p tomorrow!
    Hugs,
    Elle

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    1. Thanks Elle, so glad you liked it. :)

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  2. I liked these questions and great awnswers too Kenzie! I will definitely copy.

    xo

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    1. Thanks Bonnie! I can't wait to read your answers. :)

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  3. Hi Kenzie, wow, you did a fantastic job on the questions, they are great! I really like the last question and love your answers, especially to No 8.

    I will play along with this, if I can get some time to write a post that is!

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Aw thanks Roz! I certainly hope you find time to answer, i'd love to read yours!

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  4. That was a fun one to read! Considering how long it took me to get around to doing the last survey...and how how it took me to actually do it...tune in next year for this one maybe lol.

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    1. Haha Tess, i'll check next year - I better see your answers then. ;) lol

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  5. Hi Kenzie,
    What great and fun questions. I will copy and paste soo !
    Kim

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    1. Thanks Kim, can't wait to read your answers. :)

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  6. Thanks for sharing Kenzie. This is a really good set of questions.

    Hug,
    joey

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  7. Love the questions Kenzie!! See...you didn't need my help after all!! I couldn't think of any good ones! You came up with great ones!!

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    1. Lol aw thank youuu! You're so sweet. :)

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  8. Those are great! I'll do mine in the morning.

    I love how honest you were!

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    1. Thanks JG! Honesty can be hard, but I try lol

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  9. :D , done and posted .. some good questions there .

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    1. Loved reading your answers. :) Glad you liked it!

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  10. I love this. I think I'm going to save a copy as a draft to do later when I have a little more time and experience with DD.

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    1. Thanks! Can't wait 'til youre able to fill it out with your answers. :)

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  11. Great Qs Kensie and good answers too.
    It was also fun to play along.
    My best Q = no 14

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    1. Aw i'm so glad you liked it, thank you! :)

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  12. This is great Kenzie!!!

    I've got mine filled out and I tweaked it so that B could answer them to and then ordered him... or I mean.. asked him sweetly if he would do it too... and he said YES.... so that should be interesting..

    hugs
    Bekah

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    1. Lol Bekah, ordered him or asked him sweetly .. hmmm? ;) I loved yours and B's answers!

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  13. very fun...thanks for sharing. I will look forward to answering the questions as soon as I get the chance... :-) Hugs, terps

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  14. These questions are great. I loved your answers and will try to do this on my blog very soon. Fun!

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  15. I guess I found this a bit late but it is really cute! I would love to repost one day soon. :) Thanks for making it!

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