Monday, December 2, 2013

Breakthroughs, and LOL Spanking, and Spanko Advent!

As you can see from the title, this post will cover more than one topic!

To start it off, I feel like we had one of those 'breakthrough' kind of spankings the other night. I wrote briefly about how I had gone over my 4 drink limit, and was told I'd be getting a spanking for it. Well, he certainly delivered on that promise!

I didn't think it'd be that big of a deal, maybe just a quick little spanking, but boy was I wrong. It wasn't even about the drinking necessarily, in his eyes, but more about the disobedience, and he made that very clear. About I've been a bit disobedient lately, and he was getting tired of it.

We were sitting in the living room, and he told me to go into the bedroom, change into what I was wearing for Thanksgiving, get the bathbrush and strap out of the drawer, and bend over the bed, waiting for him. My mouth pretty much dropped, because I've never gotten any instructions like that before. I thought it was best not to protest or argue, so I did as told and waited for him. After a minute or so of being bent over the bed, I got impatient and turned around to see him standing in the doorway.

My thoughts? Shiiit he looks serious! I looked at him and asked him to just get it over with.

All I heard was, "Turn around. Stop talking."

Um, crap!

So after a couple more minutes, he came in and started the spanking. I don't remember the order of the implements, or anything like that, but I do remember the lecturing. He's lectured before, but never like this. We usually get off track, or giggle a bit during most spankings, but this was very .. serious. He was asking me why I'm getting spanked, what would happen if I was disobedient again, and if I was going to start being a good girl. Oh, and I also remember he started spanking hard with this very hard leather type mini paddle thingy, and told me that was my warm up. I asked him a few times who he was, and what he did with my husband!

His response? "He's been too lenient, he's gone now, young lady."


After about 15 minutes or so of spanking and lecturing, he told me he was going to finish up with the strap and cane.

10 with the strap, having to count, "1, I will not disobey Sir," Etc.

10 with the cane, having to count, "1, I'm sorry Sir," Etc.

Afterwards, he laid down next to me on the bed, cuddled up with me, while going back and forth between rubbing my bottom, and playing with my hair. I just had this feeling of .. calmness. I was so calm, so happy, so content, so loved, it was amazing.

I turned around so I was facing him, and told him how proud of him I was. I told him how, since we started TTWD, I've always known he was my Dom, and my HOH, but this time it was different. I was just so comfortable with the fact that he was the HOH. I was so happy, and so proud of how far he has come. I mean this man was pretty much vanilla a couple years ago. Now? He's a freakin' spanko for sure!

He told me it's nice to hear that from time to time, and that he just feels so comfortable in his role. He doesn't question himself anymore, and he just went with it, and knew exactly what to do, and what to say. I could totally feel that during the spanking, and it made such a difference in the overall effectiveness of the punishment.

Later on in the day, he asked me a question and I answered "Yes Sir," without even giving it a second thought. Usually it feels funny saying it, but this time it was the most natural thing in the world.

I still feel all giddy just writing about it. I don't know, I just feel like we've turned a corner with DD, and it feels pretty damn good!

Ok, next topic!

The LOL Day spanking. We've waited long enough, and he finally has a couple days off for Thanksgiving and the weekend, so we finally had time for the LOL day spanking. I'm glad THAT'S over with!

The order of the spanking was:

  • 25, Over his knee, Hand - reciting, "1, Another please, Sir," and so forth.
  • 15, Bent over chair, wooden spoon, just counting.
  • 15, Bent over, cane, reciting, "1, I will be good," etc.
  • 15, Standing hands behind head, lexan paddle, counting for this one.
  • 10, On my knees, strap, just counting for this one as well.
  • 15, On all fours, Spankers Choice - which was the new paddle from Blondie's Place, that I won over at Rogue's blog! Let me tell you, this is his new favorite implement. I have a serious love/hate relationship with it, lol. Based on how he uses it, it can be a good warm up implement, or a seriously effective implement. It stingssssss. This one was just counting as well.
Of course, Colin is evil, and decided to do it all bare. Plus there was a picture promised, so here are the results of the LOL Day Spanking:

That's the new paddle from Blondie, that I won at Rogue's blog. Thanks to both of you. Although Colin thanks you more! ;)
Colin thanks all you commenters from LOL day. Me on the other hand, I love the comments .. but really guys!? Lol, I'm just kidding. You're all great, and I'm so thankful to have people reading this blog, commenting on this blog, and maybe learning a thing or two, or just getting some laughs. I'm so glad I started this blog, it's been so great.

The last topic for this post, is the Spanko Advent Calendar! If you haven't seen the post, head over to it here, Spanko Advent Calendar 2013 and check it out! Colin and I did the activity for Dec 1st last night, and tonight we're planning on doing the activity for Dec 2nd, which is going over the rules while otk. Time for a bit of a brush up. ;)

For those who have seen the Calendar, is there a day you're looking forward to the most? I'd love to hear what you can't wait for!


  1. Aww your poor little bum! That's a lot of spanks to take at one time!
    In the pic it almost looks like a little heart was formed. <3

    As for Colin taking on his HOH duties on his own, yay! I know how
    exciting that is and you do feel proud! It's such a great feeling.

    many hugs,

    1. Lol, thanks Sara! It's so funny that you say that - Colin always tells me I have a "Heart butt." I think he's crazy. ;)

      It's such a great feeling and I was/am very proud of him. :) Thank you!

  2. Yeooowch. That LOL day spanking looks painful!

    I love your story about how serious he was and how satisfying that was. I totally get that. It makes you feel so cared for! I think that's why I wouldn't want to give up the punishment aspect for anything. There's such a level of trust and closeness. I love that you told him you were proud and he is confident in his role as well!

    Looking forward to advent day two! We did our day one last night. I need activity two!

    1. It was not a walk in the park, that's for sure. ;)

      I could never give up the punishment aspect. As much as I hate it when it's happening, I love the feelings and the emotions it stirs up when it's all said and done.

      Yay, glad you did day one, and happy you're doing day two! ;)

  3. Great blog! And congrats to you both for managing to match the color of the bottom to the color of the paddle! I love the advent calendar..

    1. Lol, thank you. He gets all the credit for the color matching. ;)

  4. Wow, Kenzie! That is so great to hear!
    It sounds like he really is getting into this spanking thing.
    How's your booty doing after all that spanking?

    Hubby and I missed last night, but are hoping to double up both Advent days tonight.
    Wish me luck!!

    1. Doubling up sounds perfect!

      I can say I'm no longer sore, thankfully! Lol, but we are going over the rules tonight, so I can't speak too soon! ;)

  5. Great post!!!!
    Glad you guys had a breakthrough ;) and I love your new little paddle! So cute :)
    Ps! You have a hot bum, lady! ;)

    1. Aw elle! You're so sweet, lol.

      Thanks for the compliments. ;) You're the best!

  6. yikes. you know I see a little heart too lol
    so sweet to hear about that proud moment you shared. it is exciting. have fun with day 2 :-D muah

    1. Lol Coral, Colin always says I have a heart butt, so it's funny two of you have mentioned the heart. ;)

      Thank you! :)

  7. Reading about Colin's assertive attitude gave me the chills. My husband is slowly beginning to behave in a similar way. Every now and then he will tell me to do something with "that tone" that just feels like he means business. It's thrilling, and yet sometimes tempting to blow him off just to see what he'll do. I don't know that I'll ever be as excited about spanking as you are, but I understand how insanely sexy it is when they get all domy. :)

    1. It is very sexy when they get all dom-like, isn't it? ;)

      I'm glad your husband seems to be on the right path, and I certainly hope it continues! :)

  8. Seems like your husband has definitely gone up a rung on the Dom ladder!
    Wow, that's a lot of spanking and redness!

    1. Lol DelFonte, he certainly has! It's such a love/hate kind of deal when they're like that. ;)

  9. Your poor bottom, probably good that no one else commented on LOL day. LOL And yeah on the breakthrough! Those are always so special.

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

    1. Oh I am very happy I didn't get any more comments, lol - I couldn't of taken much more. ;)

      The breakthrough was special, thank you. :)

  10. ouchie! but about that punishment and him finding his Dom? it's lovely to hear. in the early days i used to wonder if BIKSS was getting it or if he was just humouring me. but it's those few times when he is "serious" about my behaviour etc that have me convinced that he's got it down pat!

    1. I'm glad BIKSS has it down pat as well. It's so nice when we realize that. :)

  11. Those both sound like some serious spankings! It's great that you feel you're headed on the right path with things in DD.

    1. You can say that again, Lea. ;) Thanks for stopping by! :)