Breakthroughs, and LOL Spanking, and Spanko Advent!

As you can see from the title, this post will cover more than one topic!

To start it off, I feel like we had one of those 'breakthrough' kind of spankings the other night. I wrote briefly about how I had gone over my 4 drink limit, and was told I'd be getting a spanking for it. Well, he certainly delivered on that promise!

I didn't think it'd be that big of a deal, maybe just a quick little spanking, but boy was I wrong. It wasn't even about the drinking necessarily, in his eyes, but more about the disobedience, and he made that very clear. About I've been a bit disobedient lately, and he was getting tired of it.

We were sitting in the living room, and he told me to go into the bedroom, change into what I was wearing for Thanksgiving, get the bathbrush and strap out of the drawer, and bend over the bed, waiting for him. My mouth pretty much dropped, because I've never gotten any instructions like that before. I thought it was best not to protest or argue, so I did as told and waited for him. After a minute or so of being bent over the bed, I got impatient and turned around to see him standing in the doorway.

My thoughts? Shiiit he looks serious! I looked at him and asked him to just get it over with.

All I heard was, "Turn around. Stop talking."

Um, crap!

So after a couple more minutes, he came in and started the spanking. I don't remember the order of the implements, or anything like that, but I do remember the lecturing. He's lectured before, but never like this. We usually get off track, or giggle a bit during most spankings, but this was very .. serious. He was asking me why I'm getting spanked, what would happen if I was disobedient again, and if I was going to start being a good girl. Oh, and I also remember he started spanking hard with this very hard leather type mini paddle thingy, and told me that was my warm up. I asked him a few times who he was, and what he did with my husband!

His response? "He's been too lenient, he's gone now, young lady."

WHO WAS THIS MAN?!

After about 15 minutes or so of spanking and lecturing, he told me he was going to finish up with the strap and cane.

10 with the strap, having to count, "1, I will not disobey Sir," Etc.

10 with the cane, having to count, "1, I'm sorry Sir," Etc.

Afterwards, he laid down next to me on the bed, cuddled up with me, while going back and forth between rubbing my bottom, and playing with my hair. I just had this feeling of .. calmness. I was so calm, so happy, so content, so loved, it was amazing.

I turned around so I was facing him, and told him how proud of him I was. I told him how, since we started TTWD, I've always known he was my Dom, and my HOH, but this time it was different. I was just so comfortable with the fact that he was the HOH. I was so happy, and so proud of how far he has come. I mean this man was pretty much vanilla a couple years ago. Now? He's a freakin' spanko for sure!

He told me it's nice to hear that from time to time, and that he just feels so comfortable in his role. He doesn't question himself anymore, and he just went with it, and knew exactly what to do, and what to say. I could totally feel that during the spanking, and it made such a difference in the overall effectiveness of the punishment.

Later on in the day, he asked me a question and I answered "Yes Sir," without even giving it a second thought. Usually it feels funny saying it, but this time it was the most natural thing in the world.

I still feel all giddy just writing about it. I don't know, I just feel like we've turned a corner with DD, and it feels pretty damn good!

Ok, next topic!

The LOL Day spanking. We've waited long enough, and he finally has a couple days off for Thanksgiving and the weekend, so we finally had time for the LOL day spanking. I'm glad THAT'S over with!

The order of the spanking was:

• 25, Over his knee, Hand - reciting, "1, Another please, Sir," and so forth.
• 15, Bent over chair, wooden spoon, just counting.
• 15, Bent over, cane, reciting, "1, I will be good," etc.
• 15, Standing hands behind head, lexan paddle, counting for this one.
• 10, On my knees, strap, just counting for this one as well.
• 15, On all fours, Spankers Choice - which was the new paddle from Blondie's Place, that I won over at Rogue's blog! Let me tell you, this is his new favorite implement. I have a serious love/hate relationship with it, lol. Based on how he uses it, it can be a good warm up implement, or a seriously effective implement. It stingssssss. This one was just counting as well.

Of course, Colin is evil, and decided to do it all bare. Plus there was a picture promised, so here are the results of the LOL Day Spanking:

That's the new paddle from Blondie, that I won at Rogue's blog. Thanks to both of you. Although Colin thanks you more! ;)

Colin thanks all you commenters from LOL day. Me on the other hand, I love the comments .. but really guys!? Lol, I'm just kidding. You're all great, and I'm so thankful to have people reading this blog, commenting on this blog, and maybe learning a thing or two, or just getting some laughs. I'm so glad I started this blog, it's been so great.

The last topic for this post, is the Spanko Advent Calendar! If you haven't seen the post, head over to it here, Spanko Advent Calendar 2013 and check it out! Colin and I did the activity for Dec 1st last night, and tonight we're planning on doing the activity for Dec 2nd, which is going over the rules while otk. Time for a bit of a brush up. ;)

For those who have seen the Calendar, is there a day you're looking forward to the most? I'd love to hear what you can't wait for!