Thursday, April 25, 2013

Funderwear, and don't say "Because I said So."


I was supposed to update the last blog post about what went on last night, but it ended up being more to write about than I thought, so I just figured i'd write a quick post on it.

So I admit, adding in that little "Because I said so, that's why" card, in the previous post, might not have been the best idea. Before bed last night, Colin decided to pull me over his knee and show me that he's the only one that is allowed to use the, Because I said so, argument. Of course he didn't think it was enough to just talk about it, but he had to use his hand and the hairbrush .. bare bottom .. to get his message across. He's not usually a big lecturer, and i've always wished he would lecture more - well I certainly got what I wished for last night.


He made it a point to really lecture throughout.  He'd stop after a minute or so and say how he understood it was a joke, and he did find it funny, but I need to be more submissive and he wanted to make it known that he was in charge. He even made ME answer some questions, about what would happen if I decided to act up again. And then, towards the end of the spanking, I forgot to use, Sir, so even though I thought it was over, he decided to add about 10 more, fast, hard ones with the stupid brush.

Bottom line, he got his point across! Of course I was then told I had to update the blog entry and let everyone know what happens when I tell him, "Because I said so."

Weird thing was, it was probably one of the shortest spankings we've done, and it was for a pretty silly thing compared to what i'm usually punished for, but I felt super close to him when he was done. All I wanted to do was cuddle all night. I even told him that as much as it hurt, and he got the point across, and it was effective - at the same time, in some weird way, it was my 'favorite' spanking yet. I guess just because I felt totally cared for, protected, and I think for the first time it just felt totally ..right.

He wasn't holding back, he was 100 percent confident in his role, and I just let go and went with it. I was really proud of him. :)

Has that ever happened with anyone else? Has there been one certain spanking, or punishment when it just .. clicked, and seemed right? I have to say, it was a pretty awesome feeling.

Although I will say, when it comes down to it, I won't be saying "Because I said so," to him again anytime soon.

Also, something I found online that I found pretty funny and thought i'd share here. A new thing coming out, called Funderwear. You'll have to see for yourself in this video. All I know is while the idea of using it while long distance sounds intriguing for those who need it, i'd much rather use it in a restaurant or movie theatre. :)

19 comments:

  1. This great Kenzie. In the beginning the spankings did seem a bit forced and unnatural, while one does not remember a certain one where it just clicked after awhile almost all of them started feeling the way you have explained. This is a milestone. So happy for you.

    Hugs
    db

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    1. Thanks db! It was a pretty cool feeling. :)

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  2. I was about to say that maybe this was a case of 'careful what you wish for!' but since it turned out to be your 'favorite' spanking yet...maybe this is a case of wish come true:)

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    1. Hm good point! I think it was a mix of both of those things. :)

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  3. Hi Kenzie,
    I do remember the 1st spanking where it didn't seem forced or unnatural. It was a punishment spanking done immediately when I had disrespected him. Like yours, it was short, hard and fast but my favorite. I'm so glad you had your moment, it makes you feel so loved and protected.
    Kim

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    1. Aw yay for those moments! I bet the fact that it was an immediate spanking helped with that too! :)

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  4. Thankfully Steve doesn't read my blog. If I feel like sharing, I may read it to him occasionally, but otherwise he stays away from it. It's good to write about stuff, though, because it gives me an opportunity to work stuff out and get some advice so I can come to him in a better place than I may have been when I sat down to write.

    We've had a couple of those clicking moments. The spanking where it all of a sudden seemed real. The time he told me no and stood his ground. The first time he told me about a new rule instead of asking if I thought we needed one.

    As for the funderwear, Steve would be dangerous with them. He took control of my vibrating egg one night and had me climbing the walls. He was so tickled by my reaction that he's been talking about buying a wireless one for me to wear when we go out.

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    1. Aw im glad you guys have had a few moments like that! Blogs seem to be a great place to share feelings.

      Oh and the wireless ones are super intriguing. :)

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  5. I sometimes think I shouldn't have told DH about my blog, cause now I can't write pouty posts anymore, lol.
    But I know exactly how you feel, the closeness that comes from a spanking like that. Lovely!

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    1. The closeness from a spanking is awesome. :)

      But yes those pouty posts are sometimes needed lol.

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  6. I know exactly what kind of spanking you're talking about. Sometimes, the light-with-a-message kind of spankings are the best because they lack the seriousness/guilt/disappointment of a true punishment, but they have more meaning than just play spankings. My favorite was a short one too, but he was just strict enough and wanted just the right answer. When I couldn't find it in me to give the right answer, he rested his hand on my butt heavily, waiting for me to answer. I'm glad you're happy with the spanking, even if it makes you sore! :)

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    1. Aw so glad youve been able to experience that kind of spanking as well. Its so funny how something that HURTS can be so comforting at the same time. :)

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  7. Ok I'll still say my favorite spanking was when tough he didn't know it, it didn't hurt at all (shhhhh). But there have been times he has absolutely shocked me. Where he turned my head around, and yes, that "this is right" feeling. When he sets your world right, and even though it annoys you that it had to happen with this method, you can't deny the results! Nor that amazing cared for feeling. And because he got through, maybe this dynamic does work, lol. It's those memories that I try to remember when I get discouraged, when DD isn't easy. It helps me keep focus.

    The Funderwear looks cool! As far as at a movie theatre though, remote controlled things work pretty well, or...so I've ummm...heard ;D

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    1. Haha oh youve heard huhh? :p lol

      You explain the feeling of it perfectly in your comment. As much as wed sometimes like to deny it, I suppose its what we might need at times. :)

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  8. Hmm... The thing I've learnt is: never say the last word. NEVER EVER. And definietly it wouldn't be YOUR last one :D

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    1. Lol a good lesson to learn for sure! :)

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  9. Definitely strike "Because I said so" from your vocab, I think I've tried that once but mostly Daddy just says it now. Isn't it great when it just clicks?! While I am sorry you got in trouble, I'm super glad you got to experience the easiness of when a spanking and your roles just seem to fit. Yay Colin & Kenzie :)
    <3 Lily

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    1. Aw thanks for the sweet comment. And yea im not sure that saying is in my vocabulary anymore. :)

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  10. I think the talking and lecturing can make a HUGE difference in headspace so even if the spanking isn't the hardest ever, it makes it one to remember. It's nice when it all just feels right.

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