Sunday, May 19, 2013

An Update From the Other Side

Hey everyone, Colin here. Kenzie's been asking me to write in here for a while, so I figured i'd give a little update on how TTWD has been going with us from my point of view.

Boot Camp seemed to get us on the right track for a while, and really helped me out with consistency and stepping into the Dominant Role. Not sure if she mentioned this before, but she was the one who brought this whole idea to me, and it was a new idea, but something I really wanted. We both felt TTWD/DD would be great for our relationship, and that it would help defuse certain arguments, rather than our typical yelling back and forth. The Boot Camp really got us on the right track, but then when we went on vacation for a while, it came to a pause for a little bit.

We've been home for a few weeks now, and it's been a little hard to get back into our roles, but we're still in a better place than we were in the beginning.

I admit, I need to step up the Dominance, and Kenzie has to get back into the submissive frame of mind. I've realized that when she does something wrong, or breaks the rules, I tend to put off the punishment, and what I need to be doing is punishing her on the spot, as long as we're able to. If we're not able to, I need to let her know it's not on the back burner and it WILL be dealt with when the situation allows for it.

Kenzie realized that today, when she thought it was all cute and funny to give me the finger multiple times, when she thought I wasn't looking. Rather than putting it off, she got a quick attitude adjustment, over my knee.

We've been doing better with maintenance, which we try and do every Sunday, so she'll be having fun tonight after this is posted. I figured i'd be nice and write in the blog like she's asked me to, before she ends up over my knee for weekly maintenance.

I also just ordered some more implements, that i'm sure i'll be having lots of fun using. Kenzie? Not so much. When they come, we'll be trying out the, loopy johnny, a cane, a tawse, and a new wooden paddle. I'll make sure she lets everyone know what our "favorite" is.


I also have been trying to use other punishments, besides spanking. She decided to buy some stuff through a game she plays on her phone, and on top of that, decided to lie about it. She's now, not allowed to play the game for a week. I have some other tricks up my sleeve, but always welcome new ideas.

Another thing i'm trying to work on, is finding ways to have her show her submission. I have a few ideas, but it's still something i'm working on.

I know Kenzie talks to some people through this blog and another site, so I thought i'd include my email, in case anyone would like to talk to the other side. I'm always open to suggestions, conversation, and friends.

You can email me at - Colin.daniels86@gmail.com

Kenzie - make sure you're on your best behavior, because now people will know how to get in touch with me.

Just kidding My Pet, i'm sure you'll be behaving yourself.

-Colin

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  1. Well very nice to hear this from your point of view, and sounds like you know her pretty well! :D

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    1. He knows me veryyy well Julia.. sometimes it's not a good thing, lol. :)

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  2. Colin,

    Thank you. I suggest you have a punishment book for her misbehavior. Note the infraction, but let her wait for the punishment. Look at the book and tell her you are looking forward to spanking her.

    Cheers,
    Joey

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    1. Thanks for the tip for Colin Joey. We have something like that, but we've both been slacking on using it lately.

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  3. Good to hear from you Colin. It sounds like things are progressing nicely. Master calls me pet too and its nice.

    Each night while Master is in bed, this slave kneels on the floor and recites a paragraph she wrote related to our roles at his request, sometimes he will ask to have done again in the morning. It really does help keep the submissive side at the forefront of all thoughts.

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    1. Isn't the whole "pet" thing cute? I don't know why, but it makes me smile. :)

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  4. Colin, happy to see you here, it's always interesting to get another perspective. I'm glad bootcamp was so helpful for you both, it sounds like it was a great start to really help you guys get into the groove of things. As for ideas, I'll spare Kenzie and let you come up with those on your own ;)

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    1. Haha thank you Riley! I say if he wants evil ideas, he better think them up himself! :)

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  5. Hi Colin its good to hear from you. Looking forward to hearing what Kenzie thinks of your new weapons of ass destruction. Keep up the good work.

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    1. Bonnie, I don't think i'm going to like the weapons of ass destruction that much, lol .. by the way, love the play on words. :)

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  6. Hi Colin thanks for coming out from the shadows to say hi and giving your side of the story.

    Bob

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    1. Thanks for reading Bob. :) I've been bugging him to write in here, so i'm glad he finally did .. even if he is super mean telling everyone about punishments, lol.

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  7. A loopy johnny? Yikes! That is one thing I never intend to buy from what I hear about them. Good luck with maintenance.

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