Thursday, August 8, 2013

Domestic Discipline with a sprinkle of vanilla!

First off, thanks for the advice/comments on my last post. You guys really put things into perspective for me, and I think know whenever DD takes a backseat, i'll still realize it's there even though I might not see it in that moment. :)

At this current moment, DD is certainly NOT taking a backseat. Colin is Mr.HOH lately, and I have to say, i'm really liking it. Well, i'm liking all of it, except for the fact that it still hurts to sit this afternoon!

When it comes to rules, we pretty much follow the 4 D's, and I just so happened to break a few of those D's recently. Let me backtrack a second, and say that I do NOT normally text and drive. In fact, i've been known to yell at other drivers when I see them doing it, because it really bothers me. Now with that being said, I kind of slipped up.

That's a big NO with Colin. He does not take texting and driving lightly, and he really proved that last night. He kept lecturing, telling me how that definitely falls under the Dangerous category, and it also falls under the disobedience category, because it's one of our rules that I broke. I've also been pretty snappy lately, which he says falls under the disrespect category.

Geez, 3 D's broken. Thankfully, i've been very honest with him, so the dishonesty D is taking a backseat for this one. :)

I'd say last nights spanking, was the most severe yet. He warmed up with his hand for a while, which really hurt and he was nowhere near the end. He also used the wooden paddle, the lexan paddle, the mood paddle, the leather hand thing and finished it up with twenty VERY hard spanks with the strap.

Thankfully he didn't use the bathbrush or hairbrush, but all these other implements were used!

Needless to say, I will NOT be texting and driving, EVER again. I'm sure eventually i'll be snappy again, but I don't think that'll happen for a while either. Here are a few pictures of the results, because Colin is mean like that. :p



I had the day off today, and felt like being productive, but needed a little push, because I was getting kind of frustrated with what I was trying to accomplish. I sent him a text and asked if he could help me with something.

This is the part of the post that gets a little more vanilla in nature, but it does still have a DD aspect to it. :)

"What do you need help with sweetie?" He can be so sweet, even though it was only hours after spanking me, and even managing to get some tears out of me!

Anyway, i've attended college, but still without a degree, because I can't decide what the heeeeck I want to do. Well, i'm 25, and I want a degree before i'm 30, so it's time to get a move on!

I told him I was frustrated and feeling overwhelmed with it, and I just needed his help. He told me to pick four jobs i'd like to go after, and do some research. He wanted me to write down how long it'd take to get the degree I needed for each job, the salary, and the pros and cons.

I still have a lot of work to do, and a lot of researching left, but at least now I have it narrowed down and I have a list of pros/cons written out for the four choices I made. I decided to narrow it down to Dental Hygienist, Social worker, Paralegal, and Diagnostic medical sonography. I'm still unsure, but at least now the pros/cons list is on paper, rather than just being in my head.

I'm hoping he continues to help me, and gives me another goal to complete by a certain time. I want to go back to school SOOO badly, but I get overwhelmed with all the choices so easily, that I really need the motivation and him to push me. I think he'll be able to do that for me. :)

So that's pretty much all I have to report for now. I mentioned the punishment panties in a previous post, and how he wanted to order a pair that said corner time, and a pair that said spank me. Well, he changed his mind and decided we just need one pair, and they're going to say, "Punishment Panties."

Seriously? I've created a monster! We'll probably be ordering them soon, but i'm totally fine with putting it off as long as possible!

We'll most likely have this Saturday (at least part of it) to ourselves, so Submissive Saturday might happen, but we'll see. I'm curious to hear what he'll decide to focus on if we do get a chance to do it.

Very random, but found this picture/quote and absolutely love it, so figured why not wrap up the post by sharing it. :) Enjoy!



22 comments:

  1. Oh your poor bottom! All those implements... I might have been in heaven.

    Good luck with your schooling. Don't get overwhelmed and give up. Hang in there!

    xoxo

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    1. Lol, lotssss of implements! Thanks Bonnie, not getting overwhelmed is so important. :)

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  2. Should I say I'm glad you two are back in the um, well, swing of things?

    Not to be a downer, but maybe this will help you narrow the field. A good many years back, dental hygienist was announced as being one of those really great jobs that there were more openings for than employees to fill them. But then it flipped. There were so many people who took that plunge that dentists started being able to pay less AND give individuals less work hours by spreading them around. Talk to YOUR dentist's hygienist and ask how she really feels about jobs prospects right now. Mine is gettingway less hours than she used to get and she'd been with my dentist for a really long time. Plus it got ridiculously hard to get into a program, at least around here, cause so many people wanted to do it. Maybe it's different where you are, but I doubt it.

    Suggestion? Ask at your local unemployment office what jobs in your area they are having trouble finding enough employees to fill. And ask about prospects right now for your four choices. And try to find out how hard it would be to get into a program for each one.

    I'm not sure, but I'm thinking Radiologist is one of those fields that still have more jobs than there are people to fill them.

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    1. You're not being a downer at all!! That info/advice is very very helpful and I really appreciate it!

      Thanks so much, it really helps having that point of view! :)

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  3. Love how he lined up his hand/arm along with the rest of the implements;)

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    1. Lol, isn't it funny? He was about to reach into the drawer for something, and I decided to take the pic right then! :)

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  4. LOL I'm with Tess on this one! Too funny.

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    1. Lol, it was so funny. I took the picture at the perfect moment. :)

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  5. Good luck in picking out your career. You spend a lot of time at work and you better like what you are doing.

    I'm not surprised you are a little sore. Your bum looks ouchy and the description-wow- he was really strict.

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    1. I think it's really important to like what you're doing, so that's why i'm really trying to make an educated decision. :) It is ouchyyy! But I deserved it, lol. :) Thanks!

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  6. Oh dear Kenzie :( ouch ouch ouch :(

    You know I always said, if I could go back and redo school, or if I had the time now, I would study psychology, I always wanted to be a social worker, and find it very rewarding :) good luck with whatever you choose, they all sound good :)

    Hugs x

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    1. I love anything related to psych, and I always loved the few classes I took having to do with that. It's just so interesting! Thanks for wishing me luck! :)

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  7. Hey Kenzie, Ouch! Your poor bottom. I'm not surprised you are still sore! I'm sorry about the spanking, but glad to hear things are back on track.

    Sounds like you made a good start on making a career choice. Listing the pros and cons of each I think was a great idea. Wishing you all the very best with whatever you end up deciding.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. It was one hell of a spanking, but it was what I needed!

      Thanks so much for the good luck. :)

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  8. I'm so glad you're doing better! I can relate to the ups and downs with DD, etc., and that mixture of "ouch" and "thank God" when you get that awful spanking you wanna fight but you know you need! Too funny how his arm is lined up with the implements! lol

    I love how he helped you with the school decision! It's so amazing having that guidance sometimes!

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    1. I love having that kind of guidance, it really does help me! :) Haha, all the implements including his hand!! ;)

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  9. Thanks Kenzie for the update. Colin is really stepping up as HOH.

    Also, thanks for the photos of your bottom post spanking. Nice color.

    Have a terrific weekend.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Thanks Joey! He sure is stepping up lately. :) Hope you had a great weekend!

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  10. Kenzie, my rear hurts just looking at yours. That result would help cure me from the original offense as well.

    As for school, good luck. I just recently got my degree. I went back at age 32 and finished in 4 years. My biggest advice, look at the labor bureau of statistics for each field and its proposed growth in the next 10 years. Also, could you do a year of general to get started and then declare a major. At least, you would get a start on those gen ed required classes. Plus, talk to a counselor at the college. (S)he is there for this reason.

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    1. Lol aww, yea it was a painful one, that's for sure! But, lesson learned!

      Good for you, that's awesome! And great advice.. thanks so much! :)

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  11. Yikes, that does look effective! See, things bounced back already since I read the post before this one.

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  12. sorry kenzie! it looks sore indeed! stay off the phone tho. it is so dangerous.
    hugs
    m.

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