Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Not one spanking, not two spankings, FIVE spankings?!

Sometimes I wonder where my sweet non-Hohy husband went, and wonder why in the world I created this monster!

Just kidding. He's not a monster, and I wouldn't trade his Hohy-ness for anything in the world, but when I'm being spanked, in that moment it's hard to appreciate the Hohy-ness.

The other night I was driving with Colin in the car, and he noticed my gas light was on. He told me I should pull over and get gas, but I was so tired I just wanted to get home. I asked him if I could just wait until the morning.

Well .. the morning came, and I was rushing around. I kinda, sorta, maybe .. forgot to get gas. Whoops.

I tend to usually fill up my tank at the last possible minute, because I know that even once the light comes on, you still have about 30 miles in the reserve. Well this time I waited wayyy too long. I was driving home with a friend and all of a sudden, in the middle of a main road, my car started turning off. Thankfully I was right next to an empty parking lot, and was able to pull over. I tried starting the car again, and it just would not start.

Right away, I knew I was toast. I reallllyyy didn't want to call Colin, but I didn't know what else to do.

I texted some DD friends to try to put my mind at ease, but that didn't happen. :p It went something along the lines of:

Me: Hey guys - um, if a car runs out of gas .. does it just not start?
Friends: Yea, it wouldn't start if you ran out .. did you run out of gas?
Me: Explained my situation to them
Friends: You are in trouble!

I saw my Tih friends, turn into mini Hohs in that moment! ;) I know it's because they care, so I thought it was sweet! I did tell them I was going to run away and they could take turns hiding me, but of course the other Hohs would have very quickly called Colin up and I wouldn't get very far. ;)

So I bit the bullet, after trying the car a few more times, and called Colin up. He left work to come help me, and when we were on the phone we were talking about why it could have just died like that.

"Did you put gas in it today?"
"Oh uh .. Yea. I don't know what it could be. It's not the gas."

*Insert foot into mouth.. quickly!*

After I said that, I immediately regretted it. I knew I was going to be in trouble for breaking two of the D's; Dangerous and Disobedience, and now I just added lying to that list. Can you say CRAP?!

It was getting colder and colder, because where we live it's freezing this time of the year! I also knew I had to tell him about the gas before he got to me, so he could stop at the gas station and bring me some gas.

"Hun .. um, I actually think it is the gas."
"How could it be the gas. You told me you put gas in it this morning."
"Uh .. not exactly."

*Insert long lecture about how could I lie to him, and how irresponsible it was not to get gas and ALWAYS be waiting until last minute.* Ok ok, I got that point!

Fortunately/Unfortunately my friend couldn't hear him on the phone, so he had free range to lecture away. When he pulled up he gave me that look, and kinda clapped his hands together and then wiggled his hand around. It's a little sign he likes to do in public to let me know what's going to happen when we're alone.

He's even said a few times, "My hand keeps twitching." Ugh!

So he put the gas in my car, and we drove home. My friend stayed over for a couple nights so we didn't have any alone time until Sunday.

Over the weekend she was in the other room doing something, and he was standing in the kitchen. He pointed for me to come stand in front of him and decided to do a little bit more lecturing. Of course he made sure he was quiet, but he made his point. I was in for it!

So Sunday night, I was finally able to hear what he had decided on for punishment.

"Monday night through Friday night you will be getting some sort of spanking. Some could be long, some could be short, but you WILL be getting some sort of spanking each night. There will also be other punishments such as corner time, kneeling, and writing an essay."

"What?! Are you serious? Why?!"

"Do you want to try that again?"

"....I meant, Yes, Sir."

"Good girl."

I don't know where Mr. Hohy came from, but I have a feeling he is here to stay. Help me!

So last night was the first day of the punishment, and it was one of the shorter ones, but it certainly wasn't a walk in the park!

He used his new favorite implement, the paddle I won from Blondie's Place. Let me just say that if you're looking for an implement that looks adorable, but can be a seriously effective implement, go for the pocket paddle from Blondies Place on Etsy. As much as I hate hate HATE that implement when it's being used for punishment, I also have to give it major props for being so effective. After all, I signed up for punishment spankings, so as much as I hate them when they're happening, I do appreciate the effective implements. Colin appreciates them wayyyyyy more than I do, especially this little paddle!

During the punishment, I learned that bending over, hands on bed, body off of bed (if that makes sense?) makes the spanking hurt a whole lot more than just lying flat on the bed. I have no idea why, but it makes a serious difference! It also makes it harder to kick your feet up, especially when he decides to put his arm around your waist and hold you in place... yikes!

The aftercare was very sweet though. I also learned that I pretty much melt when he calls me, his good little girl. He had never called me that before. He has said good girl before, but there's something different about hearing him say, "You're my good little girl." I went to bed with a smile on my face.

Before the punishment, he came up to me with both hands behind his back, and told me to pick a hand. I got all excited because I thought maybe he was giving me an early Christmas present or something, but when I picked a hand and it was empty, I was confused.

He pulled out the other hand from behind his back, which was holding a candy cane.

He laughed and said, "6 strokes of the cane it is."

WHAT?! Not fair! I didn't know that's what we were doing? I call for a redo. Of course I didn't get the redo and I got 6 with the cane. I've been on the naughty list, picked the cane instead of the candy cane, what's next? I'm supposed to get the fun choices from the Advent Calendar. ;)

Did you guys do the candy cane vs cane activity? If you did, I hope you all picked the candy cane and no one else got the actual cane!

I'm excited for tonights activity. Ice and hot wax... hmmm. I'm trying to focus on that rather than the fact that tonight is ALSO punishment night number two. We've also missed out on a few of the activities because of his work schedule, so I'm hoping we'll be able to catch up on some of them sometime soon!

Going back to the whole, Good Girl, thing .. Do you guys have a favorite thing to be called by your Hoh/Dom, or a favorite phrase they use? I'd love to hear what you have to say! :)


  1. OMG haha you said that you got gas but really didnt?! I would do that too and regret it soo much later!! You should have called me, I would have brought you gas... you might have had to wait a little while while I drove there though haha. Sorry you got in trouble :( Next time fill your tank up!! :P

    1. Hahaha, yes I'm so running away to you next time! You'll hide me right?

  2. good girl melts me too. and I always forget gas!!! maybe you can get a pretend redo with that candy cane :-P

    1. Haha Coral, I should have suggested that to him! ;)

      Hopefully we'll both start remembering to fill our gas tanks!

  3. Yeah.. there is NOTHING like hearing, How's my little girl, or you're my little girl, or you did well.. Yeah.. all girlie goo...And out of gas? Girlfriend.... Bless your heart.

    1. Lol all that 'girlie goo' can be so great at times. :)

      Yes .. out of gas.. eek. :p

  4. Good girl always gets me, too, but I melt extra warm when he says I'm *his* good girl. Like, "that's my good girl." I even told him how much I love it recently when I wrote him a list of things I need to hear frequently that buoy me up and keep me all honeymoony and eager to please him. "Good girl" was right at the top of the list. :)

    1. Yes, when they add the "my" into the sentence, it makes it even better! I just love it.

      I hope you stay in that honeymooney eager to please him stage, and he keeps up with those names, for a very long time. :)

  5. Uh Oh Kenzie, sorry you got yourself in trouble. I get too paranoid myself to let the gas get that low. I'm glad you ended up going to bed with a smile on your face after the first punishment. Oh yes, good girl, baby girl or little girl all make me melt!


    1. All three of those are very melt-worthy, aren't they? I love them! :)

  6. Speaking from very recent experience, 5 days of punishments is a bit draining. It was good, but left me feeling quiet at the end. Hope your week goes well.

    gentle hugs

    1. I know exactly what you mean Sara. I had that same sorta feeling. Thanks for the hugs. :)

  7. Thank you for confirming that it DOES hurt more bent over and not laying on the bed!! I thought I was crazy(er)! I have not had to be responsible for the gas, and for that, I am very grateful. This post has helped me to see that "forgetting" something, intentionally or not, still breaks rules. I have really been struggling with this lately. Thank you for sharing!

    1. Haha, no you are not crazy .. it is totally true! That position makes it hurt so much more, right?!

      I'm glad I could help! :)

  8. " I learned that bending over, hands on bed, body off of bed (if that makes sense?) makes the spanking hurt a whole lot more than just lying flat on the bed. I have no idea why, but it makes a serious difference!"

    I think because skin is more taught is the reason.

    Good luck for the remainder of the week.

    Oh, I hate filling up my gas tank.

    1. I figured that was the reason .. ugh it is NOT fun, lol. It sucks even more that he now realizes how effective that position is!

      Thanks for the good luck! :)

  9. Haha, Kenzie, well, I would be on the list of Tih friends who turn into mini HoHs.....cause its true!! But I am super happy to read how consistent he has been, I think its awesome, and even with visitors it is possible to delay without forgetting. Very awesome!

    1. Lol glad to know you'd be on that list. Like I said, it shows ya care. ;) The consistency has been so great, it's such a big difference from where we were a few months ago.

  10. Wow! Great post. I have recently taken to calling Julia my "good girl," or even my "good little girl," and I don't think I can go back to anything else. It just fits our dynamic so perfectly, if you know what I mean... :)

    1. Thanks DH! :) Aw, I know what you mean, those words just have a special kinda feeling.

  11. Oh Kenzie, I'm sorry you'll have such a hard week, but it's great to see your husband stepping up and doing what he can to keep you safe. And we have a pocket paddle from Blondie's, you're right, small, but EFFECTIVE!!! lol :) I am glad we got it, but boy, I wish it didn't have quite so much sting. lol

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

    1. Glad to hear someone has the same thoughts as me on that paddle, lol! That thing sure does sting!

  12. Oh boy, five days in a row...((((Hugs)))))

  13. Wow, Kenzie! Tough week! Sorry about the gas. That has happened to me before, sans the punishment. It was before we really got into DD.

    How was the cane? We don't own one, so probably will skip that one too. :)

    Nuts! We have missed a lot of days!

    BTW, I would totally love to be called "good girl". He did once, after I requested it. But hasn't done it again. Jeesh! I still have to ask for mostly everything! ;)

    Thanks for sharing!

    1. The cane stingsss! Lol, do not purchase one, TRUST ME!

      Aw, maybe request it again? I'm sure if you request it enough, he'll get the picture. :)

  14. Ouch - so sorry for your soon-to-be-tender butt! I ALWAYS wait until the last minute to has my car. And then I have a heart attack when I'm driving and the gas gauge is literally on the E line. I hope I never actually run out if gas because that would NOT be a good conversation with the Big Guy.

    As to any pet names...not sure that he really ever says anything that melts me. Although, he did call me his good girl once and I have to agree - that's one thing that could probably make me melt every time. Gives me such a loved and fulfilled feeling.

    1. Thanks Cathy! Running out of gas is not fun, and it's certainly not a fun convo to have with an HOH, lol. I hope you'll never have that convo. ;)

      Hearing good girl is awesome! :)