Colins Responses & Eeek, RA session!

I had fun writing my last post about 10 things all Doms & HOH's should know, so I thought it might be fun to hear from the other side.

Colin had a few things to say about what I wrote, so I thought I'd ask him to help me out, so we could share his responses with you. He tends to be pretty sarcastic at times, and I got a good laugh out of some of his responses - hopefully you will too. :) Thankfully he agreed to help me out, Yayyy! Cue the happy dance.

What makes this even more amazing, is that Colin totally does the dance Joey is doing,  facial expression and all.

So, here are Colins responses to my last post. If you didn't read the previous post, it might not make sense, so go check it out if ya haven't seen it. :)

1. You're right, corners do seem boring. Use the time wisely, and think about how to avoid them in the future.
2. You might use wooden spoons for cooking, but i'd rather use it to redden your bottom.
3. Sarcastic comments like that are what you earned you soap in the first place. Keep it up and you'll have it in your mouth while youre standing in that 'boring' corner.
4. Google might have most of the answers, but google isn't the one who's being a smart mouth, so unless you want to make the essay longer, stop being a little brat.
5. I think YOU need to get your hearing checked. How many times did I tell you to do something you didn't do? That's what I thought.
6. Ok, you're right. This IS going to hurt you more than it's going to hurt me. I was just trying to be nice.
7. My pants stay up just fine, young lady. If you'd like to complain about the belt, we can move to the strap. You love that one don't you?
8. I remember just fine what I said was going to happen if you acted up again. Why don't you write me one of those essays about it? Or better yet, come on over my knee and we'll have a nice little discussion, where you can remind me what I said would happen.
9. Next time, not only will you answer with a yes Sir, you'll be ASKING me for the spanking.
10. Time for you to get those implements, line them up, and i'll show you what they're really meant for.

Like I said, he can be a bit sarcastic at times. On the other hand, I don't think I'd ever actually say my sarcastic comments directly to him. Okay, who am I kidding? I would, and I probably will sometime soon. ;)

We *Still* haven't gotten in a good RA Session/OTK Discussion because of crazy work schedules and all that, but tonight he said one will be taking place. I recently asked him if we could review our rules and change them up a bit if need be. I haven't been held accountable for most of the rules lately, and I just really need that feeling of .. being held accountable. 

Of course he agreed, so I have a feeling that will come up tonight during RA.

I'm also thinking he'll be trying out some of the new implements. Eeek. Pray for my butt please?

LOL Day is coming up, and I'm hoping to hear from some of you lurkers out there, so start building up the courage to say hi. :) Hopefully when LOL Day comes, I'll hear from some of you! We'll be having some sort of incentive for people to comment, just not quite sure what yet!

Hope everyone had a happy huuump day! 

An Update From the Other Side

Hey everyone, Colin here. Kenzie's been asking me to write in here for a while, so I figured i'd give a little update on how TTWD has been going with us from my point of view.

Boot Camp seemed to get us on the right track for a while, and really helped me out with consistency and stepping into the Dominant Role. Not sure if she mentioned this before, but she was the one who brought this whole idea to me, and it was a new idea, but something I really wanted. We both felt TTWD/DD would be great for our relationship, and that it would help defuse certain arguments, rather than our typical yelling back and forth. The Boot Camp really got us on the right track, but then when we went on vacation for a while, it came to a pause for a little bit.

We've been home for a few weeks now, and it's been a little hard to get back into our roles, but we're still in a better place than we were in the beginning.

I admit, I need to step up the Dominance, and Kenzie has to get back into the submissive frame of mind. I've realized that when she does something wrong, or breaks the rules, I tend to put off the punishment, and what I need to be doing is punishing her on the spot, as long as we're able to. If we're not able to, I need to let her know it's not on the back burner and it WILL be dealt with when the situation allows for it.

Kenzie realized that today, when she thought it was all cute and funny to give me the finger multiple times, when she thought I wasn't looking. Rather than putting it off, she got a quick attitude adjustment, over my knee.

We've been doing better with maintenance, which we try and do every Sunday, so she'll be having fun tonight after this is posted. I figured i'd be nice and write in the blog like she's asked me to, before she ends up over my knee for weekly maintenance.

I also just ordered some more implements, that i'm sure i'll be having lots of fun using. Kenzie? Not so much. When they come, we'll be trying out the, loopy johnny, a cane, a tawse, and a new wooden paddle. I'll make sure she lets everyone know what our "favorite" is.

I also have been trying to use other punishments, besides spanking. She decided to buy some stuff through a game she plays on her phone, and on top of that, decided to lie about it. She's now, not allowed to play the game for a week. I have some other tricks up my sleeve, but always welcome new ideas.

Another thing i'm trying to work on, is finding ways to have her show her submission. I have a few ideas, but it's still something i'm working on.

I know Kenzie talks to some people through this blog and another site, so I thought i'd include my email, in case anyone would like to talk to the other side. I'm always open to suggestions, conversation, and friends.

You can email me at - Colin.daniels86@gmail.com

Kenzie - make sure you're on your best behavior, because now people will know how to get in touch with me.

Just kidding My Pet, i'm sure you'll be behaving yourself.

-Colin